To Make the Right Choice

“If someone does not treat you with love and respect, it is a gift if they walk away from you. If that person doesn’t leave, you will certainly endure many years of suffering with him or her. Leaving may hurt for a while, but your heart will eventually heal. Then you can choose what you really want. You will find that you don’t need to trust others as much as you need to trust yourself to make the right choices.” — Don Miguel Ruiz, The Four Agreements


If this is the answer that the “Lessons of Love” sent you today, notice if you have recently been complaining that someone is taking advantage of your kindness, patience, and love.

If this has not only been going on for a significant amount of time but is also accompanied by a series of failed attempts to improve your communication with them, ask yourself: “Has the time come for this person to leave my life, because I deserve something better?”

Psychologist and psychotherapist, founder of espirited.com.
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