{"id":151039,"date":"2011-01-14T10:02:22","date_gmt":"2011-01-14T08:02:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/espirited.com\/your-salvation-lies-not-in-the-action-of-another-but-in-your-own-reaction\/"},"modified":"2026-02-10T13:03:47","modified_gmt":"2026-02-10T11:03:47","slug":"your-salvation-lies-not-in-the-action-of-another-but-in-your-own-reaction","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/espirited.com\/en\/your-salvation-lies-not-in-the-action-of-another-but-in-your-own-reaction\/","title":{"rendered":"The most loving person is Self-centered"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\" data-path-to-node=\"4,0\">&#8220;The most loving person is the person who is Self-centered.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\" data-path-to-node=\"4,1\">Therefore, your first relationship must be with your Self.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\" data-path-to-node=\"4,1\"><span class=\"citation-1818 citation-end-1818\">You must first learn to honor and cherish and love your Self&#8230; <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\" data-path-to-node=\"4,1\"><span class=\"citation-1818 citation-end-1818\">You must first see your Self as worthy before you can see another as worthy. <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\" data-path-to-node=\"4,1\"><span class=\"citation-1818 citation-end-1818\">You must first see your Self as blessed before you can see another as blessed. <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\" data-path-to-node=\"4,1\"><span class=\"citation-1818 citation-end-1818\">You must first know your Self to be holy before you can acknowledge holiness in an<\/span>other&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\" data-path-to-node=\"4,2\">If you put the cart before the horse and acknowledge the holiness of another before you have acknowledged your own, you will one day resent it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\" data-path-to-node=\"4,2\">\u2014 <b data-path-to-node=\"4,2\" data-index-in-node=\"147\">Neale Donald Walsch, Conversations with God: An Uncommon Dialogue (Book 1)<\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;The most loving person is the person who is Self-centered. 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